“STEPH, YOU’RE SUCH AN INTERESTING ENIGMA” A person or thing that is mysterious, puzzling, or difficult to understand. I constantly feel the need to explain myself... Which seems impossible! If someone doesn't know my full story, the environment I was raised in, my firsts with being intimate and trusting others and how that was used against me, it seems like it just won't click for some people. I am learning that I don’t owe anyone an explanation, but I will offer a little glimpse into my brain meat in this post.
Read MoreI want to be relatable to someone listening, but I also obsess over making such a small part of my story relatable to EVERYONE. That’s impossible, and when I hit that dead-end, I slowly morph back into my old ways of people pleasing.
Read MoreBeing raised in a strict, conservative and religious environment, I’ve learned that there is extreme shame and anxiety surrounding topics such as sex, hooking up, making out, monogamy, polyamory, and STDs. You know, topics that “a good girl” should keep quiet about (or so I was told).
Read MoreProud Women is a coffee table style book that features more than 100 fierce, brave women in the LGBTQ+ community and their stories. Our goal was to give a group of diverse women a platform to share their story and inspire others to have the courage to be uniquely themselves.
Read MoreJoin Julie Rodgers and I as we dig into "giving in to the flesh," the dissolution of Exodus International and the harmful practice of conversion "therapy." We wonder how to cope while on a public platform, how to love yourself in spite of being taught otherwise, and we pay tribute to the late artist formerly known as Prince and a cat by the same name.
Read MoreWhy do we have to pretend that every love story has a perfect, happy ending? Grief and loss are part of being human, and Tiff and I take time to discuss what happens when "till death do us part" becomes "till divorce do us part." What does that look like for ourselves? What does that look like for our kids? Join us as we take a hard look at celebrating love while also recognizing loss and pain.
Read MoreMy "Overthinking w/ Steph" podcast episodes are free for whomever wants to listen. "The Breakdown" episodes and other fun content that I create with friends is available to access for a small membership fee that helps me to continue to put out content into this world.
Read MoreDid you hear the one about the bisexual, Christian badass who has lightbulb moments while racking their weights?! Find out more about Kailey David in this episode where we discuss sexuality, faith, and wait... the Power Team? We reference this video and get life updates!
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